Friends in Low Places

It seems to be in my nature to seek out or attempt to get the attention of those “higher ups”, those with power or are notable. I want to know and be known by well known, respected and accomplished people. Why? It fills me with pride to think that someone like that would want to associate with me. So, therefore, I am closer to being someone like them.

The desire to be famous by association – a human condition.

As Jesus was teaching his disciples he told them a story about a wedding feast. These were big community events and there was a pecking order for the seating chart. Those with notoriety received the best seats. Yet, Jesus gives this instruction:

“But when you are invited, go and sit in the lowest place, so that when your host comes he may say to you, ‘Friend, move up higher.’ Then you will be honored in the presence of all who sit at table with you. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.” – Luke 14:10-11 ESV

The Apostle Paul writes of this in Romans, “Live in harmony with one another. Do not be haughty, but associate with the lowly. Never be wise in your own sight.” – Romans 12:16 ESV

Perhaps I have been a bit entrapped by some of my own success. I have held some high positions and have been in responsible spots during my career. I am grateful for this, and I know this can also feed the desire to want to attain more.

But there is an antidote for this.

Many years ago, I began one day serving in a ministry that provides meals to unhoused people in my city. Then I showed up again, then again. In time, this became a regular rhythm in my life, serving once or twice per week. I came to know the names of some of the folks we served. I got involved in some of their lives, helping with some additional needs they had, getting to know their families and inviting them into my home.

God had a plan to work on my character. And I wasn’t fully aware of what was happening.

I have found that an effective solution for pride in my life is to spend time in “lowly” places, to quote Paul. By throwing myself into the needs of others, I take my eyes off of myself and turn them to others, others that God loves and uses me as the means to provide his loving care.

Serving others solves pride.

Here’s the challenge: How can you live out your life in lowly places?